What kind of teachings do we need to hear for us to fully embrace the changes we want to make in how we live our lives? Fortunately the Buddha taught in different ways to different people. But even then, not everyone could be helped.
Then Kesi the horse trainer went up to the Buddha, bowed, and sat down to one side. The Buddha said to him: โKesi, youโre known as a horse trainer. Just how do you guide a horse in training?โ
โSir, I guide a horse in training sometimes gently, sometimes harshly, and sometimes both gently and harshly.โ
โKesi, what do you do with a horse in training that doesnโt follow these forms of training?โ
โIn that case, sir, I kill it. Why is that? So that I donโt disgrace my profession. But sir, the Buddha is the supreme guide for those who wish to train. Just how do you guide a person in training?โ
โKesi, I guide a person in training sometimes gently, sometimes harshly, and sometimes both gently and harshly.
The gentle way is this: โThis is good conduct by way of body, speech, and mind. This is the result of good conduct by way of body, speech, and mind. This is life as a god. This is life as a human.โ
The harsh way is this: โThis is bad conduct by way of body, speech, and mind. This is the result of bad conduct by way of body, speech, and mind. This is life in hell. This is life as an animal. This is life as a ghost.โ
The both gentle and harsh way is this: โThis is good conduct โฆ this is bad conduct โฆโโ
โSir, what do you do with a person in training who doesnโt follow these forms of training?โ
โIn that case, Kesi, I kill them.โ
โSir, itโs not proper for the Buddha to kill living creatures. And yet you say you kill them.โ
โItโs true, Kesi, itโs not proper for a Realized One to kill living creatures. But when a person in training doesnโt follow any of these forms of training, the Realized One doesnโt think theyโre worth advising or instructing, and neither do their sensible spiritual companions. For it is death in the training of the noble one when the Realized One doesnโt think theyโre worth advising or instructing, and neither do their sensible spiritual companions.โ
โWell, theyโre definitely dead when the Realized One doesnโt think theyโre worth advising or instructing, and neither do their sensible spiritual companions. Excellent, sir! โฆ From this day forth, may the Buddha remember me as a lay follower who has gone for refuge for life.โ
Let’s not find ourselves dead to the Buddha’s instructions! Every time we think about good actions and good results and bad actions and bad results, we will make good decisions in our lives.
We can find this sutta in the fourth chapter of the Anguttara Nikaya (The Numerical Discourses). Learn more about the Sutta Pitaka of the Theravada Buddhist Tradition.
Thank you for writing this story in English. I really enjoy how Lord Buddha explain things using the same words Kesi used in his horse training method. Look forward to more of these dhamma stories!